BLAME
If you receive information about yourself which you do not want you tend to make
it unconscious to get rid of it. When it is activated in any way at another time
it can appear to belong to someone else. You see the something that you do not want
but it appears outside your self. It appears in another person. This is what causes
you to blame others. Blame is saying "I do not want this to be!"
If someone is blaming you, realize that no matter what you have done or not done
the blame is coming from the hidden consciousness of the person who is doing the
blaming.
Steps:
If you are blaming others,
1. Write down all the things you are blaming them for.
2. Realize that the other person is reflecting your hidden consciousness to you just
as a mirror reflects your physical image.
What you are blaming them for is the part of you that you do not want. You have attempted
to get rid of it by hiding it. This is why you are seeing it in others. If this were
not so, you would not be finding anything in the other to blame them for.
This realization will give you an understanding of why you blame and why other people
blame you.
The hidden judgments can be removed.
A belief changing process to do so will be found at the end of this book. You can
use it on yourself or have another do it for you or consult a trained practitioner.